You control your fate

All anybody does is what they want. Without exception. There is no such thing as being forced to do something. Unless somebody is controlling your every action. Everything happens as a direct result of something you did or did not do. Whether you had a realistic way of knowing what would happen or not is irrelevant. It's classic cause and effect. You choose not to bring pepper spray with you on your way to work, and you get raped. You could have done a potentially infinite amount of things to prevent this. Like not going to work. But you chose that. And that is what happened as a result. You only did what you wanted. That's all you ever do.

So imagine somebody ties you up so you cannot resist and rapes you. Then you are being forced right? Well yeah, but you aren't really doing anything as much as things are being done to you. And still, it happened as a result of something you did or did not do. Everything does. Everything happens as a direct result of your actions. You must do your part to control your destiny. Your fate is your own to make. You control your own fate. Remember that ultimately, the responsibility is on you no matter what happens.